Interview With Deirdre
Deirdre Morris, M.Sc, M.Ed, worked as a psychologist for almost a decade before beginning her work as the Fertility Evolutionist. Her work in the field of Fertility for Women over 40, using the Law of Attraction is truly evolutionary. In this interview you will feel her heart as she explains her mission.
Deirdre, how did you come to work in the area of fertility?
I have always been fascinated about the area of parenting. When I worked as a psychologist I loved working with parents and supporting them, but even at that time I often wondered if we could help parents before the baby was born, then parenting would be so much easier.
So I began working with women in pregnancy. Then I began to wonder why don’t we prepare for the baby before he or she is even conceived; why don’t we support parents beforehand? That is where the interest in fertility arose.
Then it came time for me to have my own babies. I fell in love with a lovely Spanish man and we were ready to have children. Because I was into positive thinking and the Law of Attraction and had worked with women around pregnancy, I was confident that it would be easy for me to manifest my babies.
Unfortunately, I discovered that wasn’t true at all. My journey led me to experience three miscarriages.
What I discovered was that even though on the surface we can feel really ready, we can feel that this is so important for me to do this now, feel that we are doing everything that we need to do, that could possibly be expected of us to be able to have a baby, sometimes, at deeper levels of our being we are off track. There is some kind of misalignment.
There are fears, doubts and uncertainties that are actually holding us back from stepping fully forward into becoming mothers or fathers.
Going through that process myself and having to really explore, after each miscarriage, ‘What is coming up here?’, ‘What is the message here?’…. I discovered that we have to look so much deeper when it comes to having a baby.
While on the surface it seems that all we have to be aware of is our ovulation, making love at the right time, nutrition, etc. We can be doing all that is necessary on the surface and underneath something else is going on that is absolutely incompatible with becoming the mother or father we really want to be.
Thankfully I have a lovely ending to this story. I did discover how these seemingly irrelevant beliefs and thoughts were literally preventing me from bringing my babies into the world.
I set to really work on that and developed a process I call the Pregnancy Success Process and applied it to the different areas in which I was blocking real joy in motherhood. Soon afterwards I am delighted to report I became pregnant with my Law of Attraction twin girls.
Having gone through this, it feels so important to me to be able to share with other woman what is happening at a deeper level when she is experiencing challenges in her Fertility. I really feel passionate because the difference between wanting a baby and having a baby can feel utterly enormous. Often women don’t realize how close they are to having their baby. Indeed, as time passes they may feel that their chances of becoming a mother (again) are slipping away.
Today for example I was outside feeding our ducks with my little girls and just really enjoying being with them. I really want other women to enjoy life with their babies and to be able to transition into where I am now. I want that to be so easy. And I know that it really can be, regardless of what has happened in a woman’s Fertility until now.
That’s why I am so drawn to fertility.
What is unique about how you work?
There are several different elements that make this work unique. One is that I am absolutely convinced and know deeply that we women, and men of course, have deep guidance within us.
When we know how to and are listening to our Inner Goddess (this deep wisdom), the struggles, questions, and concerns of the Fertility journey kind of disappear.
Instead of wondering, ‘Oh, is time running out?’ ‘Should I go for IVF now?’ “Should I go this month? Can I do it? Can I afford it?’ Instead of asking those questions you are asking, ‘What’s right for me now?’.
In this process you are guided to the very best scenario for you. That is one of the main themes where I am different from other fertility experts.
Also, I link this with the Universal Laws and in particular, the Law of Attraction. I am fascinated by and love sharing with others this powerful law. Sharing in a way in which it is can be applied easily to the area of pregnancy and fertility.
Many of us understand that our thoughts do have an impact on our reality. Many more of us are beginning to understand that the Universe works like this, when we are a match to something it has to come to us. For example, when we are in a bad mood we will manifest more experiences that will make us feel negative.
On the other hand, if we are in happy form we have to attract the match to that, too.
When I am upbeat for example, it is much easier to find evidence of my youth, my fertility, or of the wonderful support I have in my life.
My process is based on connecting your Inner Wisdom (your Inner Goddess), with the Law of Attraction. Women learn how they work together so they can become a match to their baby and the experience of motherhood they truly desire.
Deirdre, who are your ideal clients?
I have been really called to work with women over 40. So many women over 40 who want a baby are bombarded with fear and negativity by the media or statistics about their chances of having a baby and even about the appropriateness of their desire.
People feel that it is ok to judge whether a woman over 45, for example, should even want a baby. Whereas a woman of 35 just doesn’t have that extra negativity to deal with when she wants a baby.
In addition, most of the world believes that your time is running out very fast once you are over 40. So there is very much a sense of urgency and stress about having a baby – it has to happen NOW.
As each month goes by that sense of urgency increases. The questions, ‘Will it happen for me now?’ ‘Is it even possible?’ ‘Is this a sign I shouldn’t be a mom?’, become familiar visitors as well.
As we know from the Law of Attraction, when you start asking those kinds of questions you are going to get more evidence ‘proving’ that you really need to be thinking carefully about those issues.
As an example, as you keep asking yourself, ‘What if time is running out.’ ‘What if I have left it too late?’ you will find yourself reading articles or having conversations with people who are asking, ‘Do you think you might have left it too late?’ or ‘Do you think it is ok if you do this?’. So the doubt increases and increases.
So, what is your message Deirdre?
I am here to clearly let women over 40 or 50 (or whatever age) know that it doesn’t matter what other people think and it doesn’t matter what the norm is.
You are a powerful creator. What matters is your own alignment. Do you really believe that you will have your baby?
Once you get into that space of alignment, understanding that the universe wants you to have everything that you want, you can connect with what you need to do (or not) in order to have your baby. You will be guided. That is what I coach women on.
When you come to understand how your Inner Goddess is guiding you and listen to her you begin to trust that you are really on track for pregnancy success.
Then fears fade away and women find themselves relaxing into the joy of creating this new life instead of being in the frenzy of, ‘Oh, another cycle.’ or ‘We have to make love now.’ or ‘I have to go look at my eggs, we have to harvest now.’.
Instead of the sense of urgency around that you can relax into the beauty of co-creating new life.
That is why I am really so drawn to support women over 40 and why I have made them the main focus of my practice.
What is the mindset of the women (and men) you work with?
The key is that they have open minds. Most of the women I work with have some understanding of the Law of Attraction and have a sense at some level that their thoughts do affect their reality.
There is something inside of them telling them that they can feel better about this. They are thinking ‘I can change how I feel. I can change what is happening at this moment in my life and I am willing to explore this’.
My interpretation of fertility challenges is very spiritual. We are all part of a much bigger picture. A very loving picture in which you and your baby are so loved.
Often on your fertility journey what is happening is that something else wants to be born in you first. In my own case, I came to recognize that I wanted to be a particular kind of mother, when I started actually trying to have babies I wasn’t that person yet.
Women who can connect with the idea that’ there is something else going on for me here’ love this approach. They don’t need to know exactly what it is but they are open to the possibility that the fertility challenges might be happening for a reason that is not so obvious on the surface.
The women who really thrive with me are open to this idea and even excited by the adventure of exploring because once you step into the arena of, ‘This could be a magical journey.’ everything shifts for you and it does become magical.
I understand that you also work with men?
Yes, men create babies, too. I do support men, as well. I love working with people who are really interested, motivated and resonate with where I am at. I have great fun with men and women.
Who would your program not be for?
The question would really be ‘Who wouldn’t enjoy my program so much?’
If the Law of Attraction just doesn’t fit for you. If the idea that we really do have an impact on our reality, we do shape our reality with our thoughts and that we are powerful and can change anything seems ridiculous.
Or, if you resonate more with the idea that ‘this is just the way it is and there is nothing I can do’, then, perhaps you won’t get so much joy out of my programs.
But, if you are open to the Law of Attraction – to another way of thinking – to exploring a spiritual interpretation, just playing with new ideas around your fertility, then you can receive so much support through the work I do and find yourself growing in very powerful ways.
Growing in lots of different ways, not just in terms of your fertility. As I found in my own fertility journey, coming into my own power and authenticity at a much deeper level. That for me was really invaluable as I stepped into motherhood.
The people I am working with really find this, too. When they step into this exploration and alignment with their own Inner Goddess, other wonderful things begin to shift in their lives and their other desires shift as well so it begins to feel not only possible, not only probable, but really true for them and that pregnancy is really eminent.
This is a very different place to be in from, ‘My God, maybe it is too late.’ and ‘Have I messed up my life?’ and ‘Will I ever be a mother?’.
That horrible feeling of doom and gloom is such a different place to the adventure that I am inviting women to step into.
In my program, women become very, very content in their fertility now as opposed chronically wondering and fearing.
Do you have other stories to share about babies who have been brought into the world by using your program?
Yes, just today I connected with a woman of 45, we just hung out together with her baby on her breast. How wonderful that is.
I have lots of photos of little babies and lovely stories from mums letting me know how things have shifted and how, after 3 attempts at IVF, beginning to work with the Law of Attraction, things moved because of a shift in their consciousness, in the vibration.
How do I begin working with you, Deirdre?
One of the most powerful ways is a very special Membership Site in which I offer monthly live calls.
We connect on the new moon because the new moon has been traditionally associated with the woman’s fertility, menstruation and womanhood. I love to tap into that ancient wisdom.
We connect on the phone and really begin to understand the Law of Attraction on a much deeper level. In our sharing I help women hear what is really going on for them at a vibrational level so shifts can be made easily. The calls are very powerful.
In the forum we discuss different issues and we stay focused on positivity because the intention is that the Membership Site is a sacred space of positivity for women.
I call the forum Fresh and Fertile Me, because the absolute assumption made is that you are fresh and fertile. So we don’t even engage in dialog which would suggest anything else, there is no space for that.
The intention is to connect from that space and to connect each woman to her fertility and freshness so the interaction is very positive, upbeat, optimistic, and empowering.
It is not just about happy thoughts, but really about how your current story is affecting your fertility and how you can shift and become aligned with your baby.
It is a really wonderful space and beautiful connections happen between people. This is the basic level in which you can join my community.
So, Deirdre, you have really created a mastermind of women who believe themselves to be Fresh and Fertile.
Yes, I have and it is very powerful. I just had a call the other night and many of the women who had just joined the group were quite anxious and scared that ‘Maybe it’s not going to happen for me.’
We were only a few minutes into the call and you could hear the shift in the women’s voices. When I asked if they sensed something had already shifted the answer was a very clear yes across the board.
The reason for this is that in the mastermind when we deliberately connect with the intention of stepping into our amazing power we have the amazing potential to create whatever we want. We actually experience this very quickly.
People join masterminds when we want to grow in some area of our lives. I am in masterminds for this very reason, to experience something that currently has not manifested in my life. The same applies to Fertility. It is important to have a powerful mastermind of positive women on the same page.
I have to say that Fresh and Fertile me is very powerful and the feedback from the women is very, very positive.
You can learn all about the forum by clicking here. We would love to have you join us.
You also have a Kindle book available soon?
Yes, I do the title is Fertility at 40 Plus, 7 Tips to Harness the Law of Attraction So You Can Have Your Baby. You can find it at Amazon.com.
I understand that you also support fertility clinics. So if someone is working with a fertility clinic then working with your program is appropriate?
Absolutely, they are so compatible. While my approach is very different, one supports the other beautifully.
I also work directly with clinics because they can actually support women by using the Law of Attraction themselves. As they explore the clinic staff’s beliefs and expectations they can enhance their results. By empowering women with different tools and techniques they make the whole process easier and more powerful. Everyone wins. I love doing that.
In fact I have written a book for Fertility Clinics which will be released soon. As I connect with other experts in the fertility field they are very excited to learn how they can apply the Law of Attraction in a very practical way so that men and women and their babies can come together which is really what we all want.
How can I learn more?
Request your Law of Attraction Fertility Gift Pack at the top of this page.
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